Playing With Fire – Book Tour

Cover Blurb

“In my 23 years of policing, I have never encountered a man as manipulative as Greg Wilson… a compulsive liar who has shown absolutely no remorse… If somebody wrote this as a script for Coronation Street, it would be too outrageous.” – Detective Constable Chris Bentham

Coleen Greenwood was overjoyed to meet James Scott, a heroic firefighter and man of her dreams. Little would she know her dreams would soon become a nightmare as his web of lies started to unravel.

The astonishing true story of one man’s lies and a family’s fight for justice.

This is the full untold story that was made into the BBC Sounds podcast series “Love-Bombed with Vicky Pattison” which reached No1 in the UK Apple podcasts playlist within the first week of its release.

A portion of proceeds from all book sales will be donated to a UK charity – “Women’s Aid”

 

 

Other Titles By the Author

Karen Crear

Author Bio

I’m Karen (K.L. Crear) - author, over-sharer, and walking cautionary tale. Think: a sweary teenager trapped in the body of a menopausal woman who can’t sneeze without risking a wardrobe malfunction. You’re welcome. Once upon a time, I worked in banking, the Civil Service, and property management , or as I like to call it, The Beige Trilogy. I spent decades being respectable (ish), responsible (occasionally), and quietly losing the will to live. Then one day I found myself broke, baffled, and built entirely out of biscuit crumbs and unresolved trauma. So I did what any sensible woman would do - I wrote it all down and flogged it in paperback. I’ve battled cancer twice, and my coping strategy was to laugh at wildly inappropriate moments and shout “F*ck off!” at inspirational quotes. Spoiler: it worked. My sense of humour is deeply questionable, but it’s kept me just about sane through grief, illness, love, lies, and the time I gave myself food poisoning with a dodgy prawn ring from Iceland. After years of procrastination (and one too many vinos), I finally swapped Pinot for a pen. Now I write jaw-dropping memoirs and hilarious women’s fiction about women who’ve had enough, snapped slightly, and are thriving in spite of it all, usually with a glass in hand, some top mates, and a solid alibi. My hobbies include eating anything wrapped in pastry, shouting at the Real Housewives (“She’s definitely had something done - she’s melting!”), and threatening to adopt an axolotl because they look so absurdly cheerful. I once turned down hugging a sloth in Mexico, it dangles upside down, pees on itself, and honestly felt like a warning from the future. I live in a sleepy Northern town with my long-suffering husband (he’s partially deaf, which helps) and our cat Pickle, who looks permanently disgusted with our life choices and the ongoing Dreamies rationing. A portion of every book sale goes to Women’s Aid, Great Ormond Street, the Epilepsy Society, and Macmillan, because I know what it’s like to need help. The world’s a shitshow, but we can all make a little difference in our own way.

 

 

The Book Tour

Day 1 - Favourite Quotes

How strong we were in our love for each other. At the end of the day family is all that really matters. (Michelle Marshall)
Growing up we could always look forward to our family holiday abroad once a year. By the time Karen and I were 15 years old we had travelled throughout the world. Overall, though, we were just an average family. (Phoebe Wilby)
I had to try to stay strong, no matter how hard it would be. Charlie needed me, and we both needed answers. (Eryn McConnell)

Day 2 - Character Summaries

Both Coleen and Karen lived through the events that they share in this heart-wrenching memoir, so it was incredibly powerful to read their honest and open account. The writing was engaging, and despite the book dealing with some unpleasant subjects, it had me gripped throughout. I found myself finishing it in one day. (Michelle Marshall)


Twins, Karen Crear and Coleen Greenwood, wrote Playing with Fire based on Coleen's experience with online dating following the breakup of her marriage. She is quick to point out that it is not a cautionary tale about online dating itself, but a warning to women that the person they are dating may not be who he says he is. What comes through the book is the fact that they both experienced heartache and pain through the actions of James Scott, and that the effect of James's deception was more far-reaching, encompassing the family and even other women who he had hurt, including his legal wife and family. Karen and Coleen's knowledge of the subject is from lived experience, and the purpose of telling this story stems from their passionate desire for justice for Coleen, and to ensure James loses the ability to perpetrate the same lies and deception with others. (Phoebe Wilby)


I really like the tone taken in writing this book. It’s engaging, open and warm throughout. The account of the true story flows fast and its subject is an important one to share with others.
(Eryn McConnell)

Day 3 - Favourite Excerpts

That is one thing I have learned: that people overall have a trusting nature, and if they are told something by someone they respect, they are likely to believe it, no matter how improbable it may seem. If someone tells you something with such certainty and in such a measured and calm way, it is not human nature to distrust or query what you are being told. (Michelle Marshall)


An icy feeling of dread was slowly creeping its way through my entire body, turning my blood cold. Little did I know that the horrendous feeling of dread I was experiencing would be nothing compared to what was still to come. The complete devastation I would feel as time went on would be horrific, as I slowly started to discover the unbelievable magnitude of the deception and betrayal perpetrated by James Scott- the man I loved, the man I had built a life with, had a child with and was planning to spend the rest of my life with. (Phoebe Wilby)


That is one thing I have learned: that people overall have a trusting nature, and if they are told something by someone they respect, they are likely to believe it, no matter how improbable it may seem. If someone tells you something with such certainty and in such a measured and calm way, it is not human nature to distrust or query what you are being told. (Eryn McConnell)


Day 4 - Video Interview

Day 5 - Reviews

Overall Rating 5 Stars- Would I have chosen to pick up this book normally? Definitely not. Would I have been missing out if I hadn’t read it? Definitely yes. From page one of this memoir, I was pulled into the story, which for twin sisters, Coleen and Karen, and their family, was their reality. Once I began to read it, I couldn’t put the book down, finding the experiences they went through both compelling and horribly cruel. I’ve of course heard stories like this in fiction or on the news, but to read about it happening to such lovely people made it hit even harder. I think the fact that the book features many local locations in the Northeast that are familiar to me also added weight to its impact. It’s incredibly brave of Coleen and Karen to share their stories. They are both obviously very strong women who have refused to let what they experienced destroy their spirits. The book provides a perfect example of how intelligent people can be pulled in by plausible lies. I hope this book reaches the wide audience it deserves, so that others can learn what to look out for. (Michelle Marshall)


Overall Rating 5 Stars- Karen Crear and Coleen Greenwood's book, Playing with Fire, tells the story of the lies anddeception perpetrated by Fireman James Scott (not his real name and not his real profession. While we know from the outset that James is a liar, the authors take us on a journey from the initial contact to its devastating conclusion. The authors’ voices shine through. We hear Coleen's anger and frustration as she tells the story of how she met James, their courtship, the five years they spent together, and their eventual breakup when she learns the truth. From Karen we hear her support for her twin sister. Their message is one of understanding and not victim blaming. Coleen expresses her frustration at not seeing, and/or not heeding, the warning signs that perhaps we as readers can see clearly. However, as they both point out, hindsight is 20/20 vision, and when we love someone, we tend to overlook what at first seem inconsequential issues until we can no longer ignore them, and their enormity becomes apparent. If I were writing this, I may have been tempted to write it in such a way that James’s deception wasn’t obvious from the outset. However, it works as it has been written. As the narrative progresses, more and more of James’s deceptions and outright lies are revealed until at the end, we see the full impact. We already know from the Foreword that James has his day in court. Thankfully, he gets his comeuppance, but at what cost to Coleen and his other victims, including his wife? Playing With Fire is a cautionary tale, warning all to be aware of the pitfalls of dating, and it begs the question: How well do we really know anyone we think we know. This is not a story to be glossed over, and is an eye opener into the shady world of those who would deceive. (Phoebe Wilby)


Overall Rating 5 Stars- This book is well paced and written. I can see the locations and the people speaking. The dialogue is strong and authentic. I like the use of foreshadowing, so we can nod knowingly at James’ antics. The complexity of this man’s subterfuge is really something else. He had all this happening in the background, kept all the plates spinning. I couldn’t help thinking he’d have done well in foreign intelligence. Thank goodness he was caught in the end. (Eryn McConnell)


Book Tour Reviewers

The Book Dragon