By Kirsty McKay

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The theological and practical question at the heart of this book is what does it mean to care and be cared for. This book is the story of an ordinary mother’s personal family life through the nightmare of caring for a teenage daughter with acute clinical depression. It provides a valuable and deeply moving insight into what it means to care for a person with a severe mental illness and will provide valuable information to many carers who feel isolated and unsupported. It will also be of considerable interest to the professionals who offer help in such circumstances. In attempting to identify the particular benefit and importance of the dimension of spiritual support, it also provides a valuable reference for the Churches. It lays down vital challenges that call the Churches to take very seriously its ministry to people with mental illnesses and their families.

Our Suicidal Teenagers: Where Are You God? By Author Edna Hunneysett – Book Review

Our Suicidal Teenagers is a story in two halves. The first half is a written account of the authors experience of the impact of her daughter’s decline in mental health and the thoughts and feelings relating to suicide. This truly is every parent’s worst nightmare and there are no words that can adequately describe the pain of living through such an experience for both parent and child. This is a trauma that runs deep and with scars that will never disappear, or fully heal. In the author’s time of need, her faith was challenged, as she sought the support of the church for her and her family, to help them through this traumatic period.

Whilst the book may serve as a trigger for those who have lived through this painful experience, it is a book that many families affected by suicide can relate to. In a strange way, reading another person’s story can help a little, even if it is simply knowing that you are not alone. I speak from personal experience.

The Author’s story not only raises awareness on the devastating impact on the family as a whole and the helplessness felt, but in a family with a strong Christian faith. The Author’s personal experience leaving her to feel let down by the church she had turned to for support. She goes on to detail how she fought to get the support she needed and to raise awareness so that others affected by suicide within the church community would not experience the same or quite as alone.

In the second half of the book, the Author then focusses on the evidence and research that she had undertaken relating to suicide and poor mental health and how this helped her campaign. This being the subject of her dissertation. For readers who have an interest in theoretical studies and this topic, the second half will provide much interest and an engaging read with references throughout that can be researched further. For me personally I did feel in the latter part of the book that this was too heavy with the theory and the numerous sources of references listed, and I would have liked to have seen more of the authors own words, thoughts and interpretation of the material she has read interspersed throughout to balance this up more.

An emotive, well written and resource focussed read, and to which I award 4 stars.

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